Turn the fantasy of an older woman into reality.
The second most viewed porn category of all time is MILF!
The most you might ask? Lesbian, but that's another topic.
I have never had that desire of the pretty, young, thing. To be perfectly clear, I'm referring to the socially acceptable and completely legal to drink age of 21 years old not the Roy Moore sexual harassment and pedophiliac desires. Although, if I may one slight digression, the over arching issue in his criminality can be seen thematically through the rest of the post which is that he as a man covets the ownership of a woman. It is not lust, it is entitlement.
Anyway, time and time again public figures, celebrities, whoever, trade in their wives for the younger, prettier, tighter, tauter, fresher, version. It is probably a fear that plagues most marriages, troubled or not. Women are an iPhone and their husbands just want the flashy new version of what they already have. Men on the other hand, don’t really worry about their spouse leaving them for the younger Zac Efron-type. I think what happens is that women desire and crave the more adventurous, the more insightful, the ones more in tune with their needs and desires. This in and of itself may be a stereotype and honestly I hope it is not, most especially because there are always instances that prove the contrary. However, give the older women their due instead of degrading them to cougars, someone who preys on the younger man. Why is that so? Men don’t have a name for choosing younger women… there are the exceptions that don't have permission to be hanging around and they are dismissively called creeps.
Older women are wiser, stronger, and they know what they want. Maybe, from a man’s perspective, that is intimidating, but what it should be is invigorating. To find a mate, a counterpart, someone you can fight life with side by side, punch for punch, that’s the goal. The president of France, Emmanuel Macron, has received a lot of attention for his older wife, but they are clearly in love, and their age difference is the same as Trump’s and Melania’s, not to mention that Melania is the younger, prettier, tighter, tauter, fresher, version of Ivana.
My hope is that in the future, we see more examples of Macron and his wife, Brigitte, because more and more women are foregoing early love and relationships to focus on careers. It is time that men see the beauty in older women. To value their strength and resolve. It is time to stop exchanging the reality of love, for the fantasy of eye-candy.
As shown by the porn statistics, deep down, that's what men want, they are just too cowardice to make their desires a reality.